Welcome!!!

To the enchanting world of Kizomba dance! I am thrilled to see your enthusiasm and determination to join our classes in London. You’ve arrived at the perfect time, and trust me, this journey will be worthwhile. Soon, you’ll experience the joy of connecting with others through memorable Kizomba dances and fun-filled moments.

➖“No”

As you prepare to dive into the exciting realm of social Kizomba dance, I want to share something important that will set you up for success. You might be wondering what it is, but deep down, you already know: you will encounter some “No” responses along the way.

I understand that hearing “No” can dampen your spirits and affect your excitement, which is why we’re having this conversation. It’s essential to remember that a “No” is not a personal rejection. Often, when someone declines a dance, it’s for a valid reason that they may not express. They might want to take a moment to grab a drink, use the restroom, catch up with a friend, or simply take a break from dancing. These are genuine reasons, wouldn’t you agree?

➖Not  you?!

Sometimes, a person’s mood can influence their response. They may have had a frustrating experience during their last Kizomba dance or simply not connect with the music at that moment. Additionally, some may choose not to share their reasons, and that’s okay.

Most importantly, remember that a “No” often isn’t about you. There will be instances when you encounter individuals who might snub you, perhaps because they believe you lack experience or simply don’t resonate with them. However, it’s crucial not to dwell on their attitudes when there is so much joy to be found in dancing!

This is why it’s essential to avoid judging anyone for their “No.” Their reasons may be entirely valid. So, reserve your judgments unless they express them directly to you. And don’t let anyone steal your joy!

➖You?!

However, there may be times when a “No” does pertain to you. This isn’t necessarily about something you are consciously aware of, like personal hygiene or dance skills. To ensure a pleasant experience for both you and your partner, pay attention to your overall presentation. Take care of your body and consider seeking feedback from a trusted friend. If you’re concerned about body odor, make it a point to shower before each dance and bring a change of clothes. If you tend to wear strong fragrances, consider dialing it back, as many people have allergies, and overwhelming scents can be off-putting. If you suspect your dance skills need improvement, don’t hesitate to talk to your dance teacher—they are there to help you grow.

➖Be nice!

Above all, treat everyone on the dance floor with kindness. Such treatment is often reciprocated, and people will notice how you interact with others. Avoid correcting your partner during a Kizomba dance; that’s the role of your dance teacher. If your partner seems to be struggling with timing, just enjoy the dance and have fun together—don’t focus on corrections.

➖Let’s go!!!

Now, I believe you are ready in every way to embark on this exciting adventure. Remember, no one can spoil your fun unless you allow them to. Enjoy yourself, and be sure to support your fellow beginners on the dance floor. Welcom